reading between the lines
The lines on my face tell a story. These lines are honest about who I am and how I’ve lived. They don’t lie and they don’t flatter—they just are. They tell the truth, and that’s a rare thing these days. So come linger with me awhile as I share this diary of a life well-lived.
Those crinkles at the corner of my eyes? Ah, yes. Those are from squinting at more beautiful, breath-taking sunsets than I can count. Oh—and from laughing at too many silly jokes. (Is there such a thing as too many? Not in my world.)
The faint creases across my forehead? Those are from worrying about people I dearly love. From restless prayers in the middle of the night. Or fretting in silence when it seems they’ve put me on hold (how long is too long?) debating with myself whether it’s too soon to call.
Oh, I see you’ve noticed the lines around my mouth, carved by years of smiling and kissing (probably too hard but never too often). And yes, even a few from sipping iced tea through a straw (the plastic ones, mind you, before they were declared enemies of the environment).
Do I love all these lines? Let’s not get crazy. They aren’t exactly my favorite feature. If a magic cream truly existed that could erase them without making me look like a wax figure from Madame Tussaud’s exhibit, would I use it? You bet!
Well…maybe. But if the price for a wrinkle-free face must be paid in erasing this full, messy, chaotic, joyful life that made them? No deal. These lines mean that I’ve lived.
True story.
My life has been more wildflower meadow than a sophisticated runway.
I’ve laughed until I couldn’t catch my breath. Cried eye-swelling tears when my heart has been split wide-open. Stayed too long in the sun because it was just too beautiful to pull myself away from the warmth of this adventure path the Lord has set me on.
Life has been a rollercoaster and my face is the souvenir photo. These lines mean I didn’t just exist—I showed up. So please, don’t photoshop me or slap on an Instagram filter that turns me into an airbrushed mannequin. I’ve lived a real, flawed, and deeply human life.
A little touch-up is fine (let’s not pretend I’m above vanity) but let’s not erase these lines.
I’d like to keep them, thank you very much.
Proverbs 31:25 says it best. “She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come.” Some versions say smile but I’m a laugher. These lines show I’ve already had more than my share of joy, and I’m not done yet!
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Monica Ayala | April 9, 2025
Love all that you do and resources you have to continually inspire many women
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Amy M | April 10, 2025
Bravo Cathe.!
And again I say, Rejoice!
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brN | April 15, 2025
AmN❣️🙌🏻
cath, ur grAciousnS is NspirN 2 us aL🥹
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Melinda | April 15, 2025
Truly beautiful, Cathy! I will be looking at my face in the mirror with more dignity and heartfelt appreciation now. Thank you for sharing your life truly lived which has created these moments and memories on your face! You have given me the strength and confidence to share my truly lives story with others.
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Mary | April 15, 2025
Well said! Thank you for the reminder.
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Cheryl Conklin | April 15, 2025
You have always been a blessing. Thank you for the love and honesty you share. 💛
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Toni | April 15, 2025
So beautifully spoken. Thank you, Cathe, for being real. It is so refreshing to have our Virtue leader let us know that she is normal like the rest of us. Thank you for shining the light of Christ so beautifully. You inspire me. You are right, our lines show that we have truly lived a full life!
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Tiffany Flygare | April 15, 2025
Wow I love this and needed to hear this today. I am a gal in her mid 50's and struggling with all the changes that are happening to me...but this helped me with a perspective that signs of a life well lived is far better than any magical cream or filter
Thank you so much
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Joan VanderSchaaf | April 15, 2025
I love this!
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Debbie | April 15, 2025
Love, love, love this! Thank you for sharing this wisdom and thank God for our lives that bring about these lines!
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Lynda | April 15, 2025
Thanks for the encouragement on looking at my aging face in such a positive way! It’s true. It tells a story and it’s a good story of who I am and the well lived life God gave me filled with blessings and forgiveness.
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Pamela Hays | April 15, 2025
I love this and I'm older than you. I have not had a fairy tale life and Ups and downs, but with Christ all things are possible. I gained a richer life when I really started a closer walk with the LORD. I look forward to meeting my best friend who always walks with me, Jesus the Christ. I love Him and my family and many friends. I'm thankful for all the days I've been allowed to serve Him and I'm not finished yet.
Thank you for all you do and you are an inspiration to many of us.
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Lourdes Nava | April 15, 2025
Thank you Cathe! I love how genuine you are sharing your wisdom.
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Stephanie Kenan | April 16, 2025
I ABSOLUTELY love this. Thanks for keeping life real.
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